Well, even if a guy has married, he'll still be able to appreciate a beautiful (or cute in this case) woman objectively.. Even though it'll raise some death flags..
I always felt her rampages were justified. This is merely more proof that Admiral Goma can't keep his hands to himself.
Poor Aoba doesn't deserve the beating she's probably going to get.
Why would you beat someone who isn't directly causing anything? Even for someone as supposedly violent as Flandre, that seems messed up. I mean, even in the picture of Flandre threatening Aoba, she specifically says it's only if /she/ instigates it.