I succumbed to self-loathing thinking I had done something wrong myself.Has it been more than 3 years…And that's how my boyfriend of two years broke up with me.I didn't see any signs, so it was the shock of a lifetime…We'd always been happy…And then, after disappearing for three years, the other day…He's late as always…we made plans to meet up.Tomoko! So good to see you!But in those three years…